Clarence LeRoy Nelson and Ila Vera Poulton Family Blog
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Saturday, December 10, 2011
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Betty Nelson (Dale) Shelby
Dale Shelby History And Betty Nelson Shelby History
submitted by Joe Shelby (son) and Suzi Shelby Stanger (daughter)
Grandfather Thomas
Shelby
Born in
Prairie Grove Arkansas . He loved to work with trees and
plants. Before moving to Idaho
in 1916, he worked on an apple tree farm. He is the father of 3 children, 2
boys and 1 girl. He died of a tonsillectomy and is buried in Prairie Grove , Arkansas .
Minnie Gibson
Shelby Nesbit
Raised in Prairie Grove , Arkansas .
Mother of 3 children, Melbourne, Joseph, and Juanita. She moved with the family
from Prairie Grove , Arkansas
to Rupert , Idaho in 1916. After Thomas Shelby died, he
was taken back to Prairie Grove and buried there. Minnie married Jack Nesbitt.
Because all of her children remained in Idaho ,
she was buried in Rupert with Jack Nesbit. Had sinus and mastoid problems and
came to Idaho
for her health. She had adult onset diabetes which was difficult later in life.
Melbourne
Shelby worked in a bakery.
Joe
Tillerman Shelby He was born in Fayetteville Arkansas near Prairie
Grove Arkansas . He
moved as a young boy to Idaho
with his family. They travelled on the train to Idaho
from Arkansas .
With his southern accent and great number of freckles on his face and arms, he
was subject to some hazing and teasing on first going to school in Rupert. He
was a fast runner and good student. He was friendly and made many friends in
school. He attended Rupert schools where he met Grandma Alyce at Rupert High
School . They were m their senior year in High
School in Farmington , Utah in the back of grocery store.
Great Grandma Johnson was expecting a baby
(Clifford) and Alyce and Joe thought it would be easier on the family if they
eloped and got married. Alyce and Joe were in several classes in high school
together. When they returned from their trip to Farmington to get married, they both went back
home to live until graduation, not telling either family.
A teacher at the Rupert
High School had a friend in Farmington , Utah .
This friend sent a newspaper clipping about Joe and Alyce’s marriage and asked
if she knew the young couple. The teacher asked Alyce’s sister Margaret about
the wedding in a class before the teacher talked to Alyce. Margaret went home
and told the family. Although a somewhat unusual beginning, they shared a
wonderful marriage that lasted more than 70 years.
Grandpa Joe loved to read magazines
and business articles. He read the newspaper faithfully, often circling
articles and cutting out something helpful or interesting to send in a letter
to a friend or family member to read. He was an avid horticulturist. He loved
to grow a great variety of flowers, trees, vegetables, fruit, and enjoyed
spending his days in the yard, garden, and at the grocery store he expanded into the relatively new area of stocking
bedding plants and bushes that customers could purchase to plant at home.
He was a tireless worker. He was
always awake and dressed and eating breakfast before 7am. He enjoyed working
hard. He was happiest at work. He would eat his lunch and rest briefly and then
he would work again until 6pm. During years in the grocery stores, those hours
went until 10p.m.
As a young man he helped create the
canal systems in and around the Rupert area when the dams were created on the Snake River . He loved to be at work and to be with
people.
Juanita Minone Henrietta Shelby
Hayden
Johnny Erastus Johnson was a very
skilled carpenter. He came from a large family that emigrated from Denmark to Brigham
City , Utah after
joining the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.
Jennie Mortenson Johnson also lived
in Brigham City , Utah . Her family was also from Denmark . Her
mother died when she was young. Her father remarried and it was difficult for
her and her brothers and sisters following his 2nd marriage. Her
family had a shoe store in Brigham
City , Utah . She was a
very skilled cook and she loved to play games. She was very tender hearted. She
cried easily and often, her heart was very empathetic. She often would call the
children “silly goose”.
Ray Johnson Alyce’s wonderful older
brother he died at 14 from appendicitis.
Edith Johnson died as an infant
baby.
Alyce Johnson Shelby Grandma Alyce
was very athletic and smart. She had a wonderful sense of humor. In school, she
was amazing in Math. As a young girl she loved Mathematics and excelled with
memorizing math—times tables were her specialty. She loved competing in Math.
She played games often as a girl as the family always played card games. She
was a wonderful sister and helped her brothers and sisters and their families
throughout her lifetime. It was very sad to her when her brother Ray died at
age 14. She was very independent. She was a hard worker. She helped on the farm
and during a short period when her family moved to California
she helped with her younger brothers and sisters but also found time to swim in
the ocean and enjoy the experience of life in California . She helped on the family farm
and knew and loved the neighbors nearby.
After she and Grandpa met and were
married, she was a lifelong help to him in all of their endeavors. She was very
organized and kept the accounting and records organized. She was a whiz at an
adding machine. She was very frugal and economized and saved money in many
ways. She enjoyed saving money and used it to further their businesses. She
enjoyed belonging to Civic Clubs and Bridge and Pinochle Clubs. She was an
excellent card player. She and Grandpa Joe were both very patriotic and loved
the United States of America .
They both felt it was important to keep jobs in America
and they tried to buy things that were made in America . Because they were
self-made business owners, they were careful and never wasted any money or any
time.
They raised large gardens and had
fruit trees. They canned dill pickles, beets, apple and peach jam that were
loved by all their family. They enjoyed raising green beans and carrots,
cucumbers, and had fresh vegetables on the table all summer.
They had many friends and were good
friends to other people. They always stayed in touch with their friends and
family. Grandma wrote many letters to family and friends in Arkansas ,
Arizona , and
other family members and friends wherever they lived. She remembered people’s
birthday with a card and friends nearby often received flowers, a card, or they
went to eat lunch or dinner together. They loved people and enjoyed many
enduring friendships.
Margaret Johnson Forge she was so
cute and funny. She and Alyce shared many funny times together. They had to
clear the kitchen table after mealtimes at dinner. Alyce would let Margaret
choose which half of the table that she would clear and Alyce would clear the
other half of the table. As they would go back and forth to the kitchen, each
time Margaret left the table, Alyce would slide some of the silverware, plates,
cups and empty food dishes to Margaret’s side. At Christmas time they would
each get a chocolate covered cherry from a box of candy. Alyce and the other
children would eat their chocolate covered cherry quickly, enjoying the treat.
Margaret would eat hers with a toothpick, one small piece of chocolate at a
time pulled from the chocolate covered cherry. Alyce, exasperated, would
finally grab whatever was left of Margaret’s chocolate covered cherry and eat
it. They were very close sisters. Margaret was a wonderful seamstress and sewed
most of Alyce’s blouses and pants, and spent time with Alyce ever year when
they would update her wardrobe. Alyce learned to drive when she was 12. She
drove into Ogden
and back to pick up a relative from the train at age 12.
Ralph Johnson Alyce’s older
brother. They were great friends and played and enjoyed working on the family
farm together and enjoying growing up as the family moved from Utah to Idaho .
Margaret Johnson Forge her husband
worked for the railroad in Pocatello and then in
Nampa . She
worked for many years as a seamstress.
Willard Johnson wonderful carpenter
he also worked for Geneva Steel in Lindon Utah . He travelled for Geneva Steel and was
Mayor of Lindon.
Lyle Johnson a wonderful carpenter.
He could make anything. He was so sweet and kind.
Thelma Johnson Bradley she worked
in the State Legislature in Boise .
Her husband sold insurance. She was beautiful and lots of fun.
Clifford Johnson Alyce’s youngest
brother he lived in Missoula
Montana after his marriage.
Alyce and Joe moved to Arkansas after they were
married, and following high school graduation.
Leon, their first child was born in
Prairie Grove Arkansas and died from pneumonia when he was
3 years old. Tom and Irene Dyer and Grandpa and Grandma pooled money to travel from
Prairie Grove , Arkansas
to California
in Model T Ford and shared expenses. They had seen an advertisement for work in
Sonoma , California
to work on road construction.
Joe and Alyce then moved to Ely , NV
and bought a bakery with Joe’s brother Melbourne and operated this for short
time until the mines closed and they had to move. Once they sold every baked
good except chocolate cake to the miners.
Alyce and Joe didn’t want to waste the chocolate cake and they ate it as
a meal. They became so sick! They never had chocolate cake at their home again.
Alyce and Joe moved back to Rupert
and worked with the Canal Company and had second child Max. He lived after his birth only briefly and he
is buried in the Rupert cemetery.
Grandpa Joe went to work for a bakery in
Rupert.
Dale Le Roy Shelby was born August
25, 1930.
Dale Shelby |
When Dad was 7 his parents adopted
an infant, Monte Joe Shelby.
Grandpa Joe was manager of Walls
Food Store for 3-4 years and then bought Freer Food Store and owned it for
about 10 years and sold it in 1948.
Joe and Alyce bought Kaiser Fraser
and Tucker Auto Franchises in Boise and Brigham City but because
of a variety of Tucker Auto manufacturer issues they could not make a success
of selling those types of vehicles.
In 1950 they moved from Boise to Twin Falls and started
Shelby ’s Market.
They enlarged this store three times. It grew from 2,400 square feet to a 26,000
square foot supermarket.
Dale playing football on Budge Field downtown Burley by the Court House |
Dale Shelby Graduation Picture |
Dad met mom in 1945 at a seminary dance at the Wydell dance hall in Burley. Mom’s sister Wilma was living in apartments behind
Betty was a cheerleader from Oakley , Idaho . She and her 6 sisters and 1 brother helped
her mother and father on their ranch in Oakley. They had a large apple, pear,
and peach orchard near their home. They lived about 2 miles outside of Oakley.
Betty’s father died when she, Carol, Bob, and Wilma were young and still at
home. Her mother kept the ranch going and worked at the Oakley school as a
cook.
Dad grew up working in the grocery stores with his parents.
They lived near the Burley
Park and he had a lot of
fun playing games with friends in the neighborhood.
He would often go to his
grandparents’ farm in Rupert. Many weekends were spent with them on the farm. He
was very close to Alyce’s brothers and sisters and spent a great deal of time
with them working on the farm. He rode the farm horses, helped with the cows
and chickens, swam in the pond, and looked for eggs in the chicken coop. Dale learned to swim and was a good swimmer. He
enjoyed homemade bread with thick cream and sugar sprinkled on it.
Once he was asked to ride the horse
to pick up some shoes that had been re-soled. On the return trip he had the
shoes all knotted together on the neck of the horse. Something spooked the
horse and after a quick dash, Dad and shoes went one way and the horse went
another. The shoes softened his landing and Grandma and Grandpa didn’t notice
any extra scuffs on the shoes from his slide down the gravel road on the shoes.
As they grew older, her brothers and sisters came to stay and live with Joe and Alyce at different times. Willard drove school bus and he lived with Joe and Alyce during that time. He loved spending time on the farm and sharing in the work and play there.
He
loved to ride horses. He was a good bicyclist and he saved money and bought his
own first bike. Once when he was riding his bicycle, someone swung the door
open suddenly on a car parked near the side of the street –sending Dale and his
bicycle flying.
Dad did all kinds of work as a
young boy in the store. He would count all of the eggs that farmers brought to
the store to sell. He would pluck chickens each night after school. He worked
and saved money. He bought his own hunting rifles and he loved to hunt with Grandpa
Joe and other friends all around Burley and Rupert.
As he got older, he loved to draw
and had good talent. He created most of the hanging signs at each display in
the store and he drew the large store window displays of items for sale and the
price. Drawing was interesting and he would go in early each day and create all
of the signs needed for the store.
Dad loved to work at the store but
he also had a great mind for how to maximize his time and make good money while
working. He realized he could make more money than most of the managers at the
store by plucking chickens after school. It was a job no one wanted to do but
the store supplied cleaned chickens to many restaurants and customers. Dale
made a great deal of money plucking chickens. When he and Betty married, he had
more than$4000 dollars saved and a nice truck which he had paid for with his
own money.
Dale was acquainted with many people in Rupert,
Heyburn, Declo, Burley, Oakley, and Twin
Falls as they would come in to trade at the store or
they would have items for the store to sell. He knew many families and their
extended families in the area. He knew everyone at school, older and younger.
He was friendly and outgoing. He became captain of the football and basketball teams
and served as student body vice president his Junior Year and as Student Body President
his Senior Year.
He loved history. He was a great
reader and enjoyed Western literature. Earl Carlson was the school principal
and he enjoyed Mr. Carlson a great deal.
Dad enjoyed going to the movies on
Saturday. He would usually get a blueberry or banana or coconut cream pie from
the store bakery before the double feature movie on Saturday. He would eat one
half of the pie during the first movie and the other half of the pie during the
second feature. He would grow to be 6’2” and he was very active!
Most kids growing up in the 1930’s
and 1940’s had 1-2 pair of pants for the school year. Dad in school enjoyed the
tradition of having friends autograph each other’s pant legs which they would
then wear all year. Dad had several pairs of corduroy pants that he wore to
school throughout the year. He laughed that they must have been able to stand
in the corner by themselves with all that wear each year!
The Second World War started for
the United States on
December 7, 1941 when Japan
bombed the United States at Pearl Harbor . Dad had a map on his wall in his bedroom
and he put pins in the map and followed the War and the battles between the United States , Great
Britain , France ,
Germany , Japan , Italy ,
and the nations of Africa and the Pacific as
the War continued to its close in 1945.
Because they worked 7 days a week
and the store was open from 7am and closed at 10p.m., the noon meal was the
biggest meal of the day. After work at night they would often just take
something home from the store to eat. Some of Dad’s favorite things to eat were
canned Vienna sausage, cold cereal, and bread and milk. Grandma Alyce worked in
the store and so she didn’t cook big meals during the week. Dad was impressed after
visiting a friend’s house where a pan on the stove always had cooked beans for
the kids to eat. He thought it was wonderful.
Grandma Alyce was a great cook. The
family bottled everything from the garden and she loved to have a good meal and
dessert for the family. She made wonderful apple cake, carrot cake, fruit
cobbler, roast, chicken and dumplings, Chinese noodles, cabbage slaw salad.
The family loved to play card
games. They listened to popular programs on the radio. They had a coal furnace and had to clean the
walls from the coal smoke. They loved to hunt and fish. They visited friends
and family in Rupert, Burley, and enjoyed going on picnics.
In 2nd grade, Grandma
Alyce encouraged Dad to learn to play the violin. It was a great struggle for
him and the violin didn’t come as naturally as basketball, football, marbles,
hunting, fishing, or riding horses. Music
was not a book he enjoyed reading, or a sport he could help his team win, or
work that he could do at the store. He was not interested. He struggled and
worked with the violin but he was greatly relieved when the music teacher and
his Mother agreed that he was not a good student of the violin!
During
the years in the store, bigger meals were usually on Sunday. They would always
get hand packed ice cream from the store and eat the entire half gallon each
Sunday evening. As Mom and Dad started dating, she would often be with them on
Saturday or Sunday. Mom learned to check groceries, pack ice cream, and do much
of the work there.
Oakley and Burley had a great
school rivalry. Oakley was the smaller school and they really prepped to beat
Burley in any sport they competed. As Dad and Mom started dating, Burley and
Oakley were playing a football game. Dad sprinted down the field with football
tucked under his arm and Mom was a cheerleader on the sidelines. She called out
from bench after a successful field goal – “Dale you quit that!”
Dad loved Mom’s family. He loved
the ranch and farm. He enjoyed all that the family did together and joined in
as one of the family from the very beginning of their courtship. Quentin Warr,
a brother in law who was very funny and joked all the time, commented when he
met Dale: “Well Betty couldn’t you have found an uglier fellow to date?” The family had so many good times together as
the older sisters were married and lived in Oakley or nearby and they spent a
great time together enjoying Sunday dinners, picnics, and holiday times
together as a family.
After community dances they would
go back and have breakfast together late at night at the Critchfield’s, or
Warrs. They always had water fights. Once Dad remembers Grandma Nelson was
ironing and a water fight broke out. The family chased each other and threw
water as she ducked and dodged.
Grandma Nelson was a wonderful
cook. Dale loved her home cooking. When they first started dating, Mom was
afraid her Mother’s cooking wouldn’t be as sophisticated as the store bought
bread and pies and cookies that Dad was accustomed to at the store. She made
her mother buy some store bought bread to have for Dale with his first meal
visiting their home.
Grandma Nelson made her own
mayonnaise and her ground roast beef sandwiches were wonderful. She made
homemade raisin filled cookies. She bottled hundreds of bottles of peaches and
had great pear butter jam. They had horses and milk cows. It was very similar
to his Grandparent’s home and farm in Rupert. He felt at home immediately and
enjoyed everything associated with the Nelson’s farm and family.
Betty Nelson and Dale Shelby |
Dale and Betty loved to go on picnics to the Oakley Dam and all of the area around Oakley. They ice skated on the Oakley canal. They attended all of the school and seminary dances together.
One of the times Dad got in trouble for
missing school was to go to Pocatello
and see Mom in a high school play and he forgot to write himself a note to be
excused – He had mastered the ability to forge his mothers note.
Dad loved to ride his favorite
horse Nig to Oakley. It was 20 miles between Oakley and Burley. It was a 40
mile round-trip by horseback. He did that many times. To show what a kind and
benevolent gentleman Dad was – after a dance in Rupert Mom missed the bus and
Dad had to drive her home to Oakley. The heater did not work, so the couple
wrapped in a blanket and kept each other warm for the 40 mile ride. Dad’s
buddies never understood how the car did not conveniently run out of gas!
The Principal from Oakley Idaho said Dad should
transfer to Oakley from Burley as he spent more time there visiting Betty then
in Burley and he would get more school credit. They were both accepted very
well in each other’s towns and schools and have been attending school reunions
together throughout their lives.
Dale Shelby at the Grocery Store |
Nelson Side
Swanty Nelson and Charlotta came from Tooele ,
Utah and moved to Oakley , Idaho
and homesteaded below the dam and had a ranch that eventually was used as part
of the Oakley dam.
Clarence Nelson grew up in Oakley.
He was fun loving and a great horseman. He enjoyed being a cowboy as he grew up
in Oakley. He was a big tease and loved to laugh and joke. Once he thought he
would do something nice for his Dad and he pounded nails into his Dad’s saddle
as decorations. He was surprised when his Dad wasn’t happy with the
embellishment Clarence added to the saddle.
He was very strong. He could pull
himself end over end up a rope very quickly. He could hold himself vertically
straight out from a chair and circle the chair holding himself straight as he
circled it. He was a fast runner. He was quick in a wrestling match. He was a
good hunter and fisherman. He loved to play and have fun. He loved the outdoors
and enjoyed the beauties of southern Idaho and
Nevada .
He loved to joke and have fun. They
put a wagon on top of the school. They played all kinds of pranks during his
growing up years in Oakley.
He served a mission in New Zealand
from 1906 to 1909. His nick name was “ Swantys Angel”. The day before he left
to go to Salt Lake City
and be set apart for his mission, he rode his horse into the Oakley saloon,
yelling out “I am going on a mission in the morning!” He served a wonderful
mission on the north Island . He had many
wonderful friends and members of the Church in New Zealand . He brought back a
saying “auckataweeah”- “row the boat over here”. He enjoyed riding a bicycle, a
new invention at the time in some parts of his mission. They walked often 20
miles each day, visiting different members and investigators. He had a strong
testimony of the Gospel and loved the Savior.
Pherry
Nelson and May Nelson were Clarence’s brother and sister. They never married
and they lived and worked together throughout their lives. Dad and Uncle LaDell
loved to hunt with Uncle Pherry. Often they would go after work up to pick up
Uncle Pherry and they would ride horses and hunt deer all over the Oakley and
Burley area.
Edward Eli Poulton father of Ila Vera Poulton. He died when
she was very young.
Ann Worthington moved to Oakley from Tooele.
The Poulton family homesteaded the Buckhorn ranch – Edward went
to the county seat during a business trip. He got very wet and cold and caught
pneumonia and passed away at a very young age (33).
Because the Buckhorn Ranch was
outside of town, Grancma Alice Ann Worthington would hide the children outside
the ranch in a field or in a ditch when Indians came by to ask for food.
Diamond Field Jack came by and was introduced to the kids.
He was the range detective to protect the cattlemen from the sheepmen.
Ila
Vera Poulton Nelson, Emerald Poulton Hunter, Edna Poulton Hales, and Wesley
Poulton were the children of Edward Eli Poulton and Alice Ann Worthington
Poulton. Ila Vera Poulton Nelson as the
oldest helped her mother after the death of her father when Wesley was a baby.
Both Clarence and Ver were born and
raised in Oakley Idaho .
Ila Vera had helped take care of neighbor’s children to earn money. She cooked
for ranchers in the area. Clarence was
several years older than Ila Vera. They met after his mission and were married
in the SLC Temple .
They travelled by horse and buggy
to be married in the temple. Their first
home was at the Bostetter Ranger Station were Clarence worked for the Forest Service
and then help build the Porcupine Springs Camp with the CC’s. They had 7 girls and 1 boy. They served in the
Church in Oakley. They had many wonderful times on picnics, enjoying Church and
community activities, and doing the work of the farm and ranch. Clarence Leroy Nelson
was sick during the last 7 years of his life. He died in the LDS Hospital
in Salt Lake City .
Betty’s sisters were: Myrna Nelson
who was married to George Franks, she died at a young age from cancer, leaving
her husband and children; Bea Nelson, married to Theron Smith; Wanda Nelson married
to Niles Critchfield; La Rae Nelson, married
to Quentin Warr; Wilma Nelson married to Ole Parrish; Robert Nelson married to Mary
Turner; Betty Louise Nelson married to Dale Shelby; and Carol Nelson married to
Ladell Handy.
Betty Nelson was born in Oakley Idaho on March 11, 1930. She contacted an
illness right after she was born and was treated for a skin illness in Twin Falls .
She got car sick from the fumes of
the bus and would mainly walk everywhere she went. She learned to walk fast and
be headed somewhere. The family was raised by the Oakley canal and so was a
path she was very used to traveling. Although she lived close to the canal she
never learned to swim. Vera put a lot of fear from swimming and the possibility
of drowning and so she was very adverse to water.
The Oakley drug store was the gathering place
for the kids. Mom found a lot of fun in playing store from the books of the Clarks store and played with her sister around the leaf
of table and two chairs. She would ride her horse Bally to gather the milk cows
and to travel around. She and Aunt Carol were the dearest of friends and did
everything together. They played dolls, played in the orchard, and shared all
of their growing up years with each other.
When Mom was little her dad
requested her to learn the name Funeral to go to her grandpa’s funeral Swanty.
Mom lost her Dad at age of twelve and was raised in pretty meager
circumstances. She milked cows in the morning and evening and helped to do a
lot of canning to help sustain the family and trade for needed items. She and Aunt Carol would sleep in the orchard
during the summer to keep cooler. No one could leave their home without a
bushel of apples. Pioneer Day, July 24, was the family vacation to Bostetter.
The family continued this tradition for many years and Veras oatmeal cookies
were a big part of the tradition. The family looked forward to Uncle Earl
Rytting coming and bringing Hostess products to share with the family. Bread, Twinkies, Cupcakes were a cherished
treat.
Moms grew up in very humble
circumstances. She was invited to a friend’s birthday party in the Oakley Ward.
The Nelson family searched for a gift for her to take to the party. They found
a nickel to give to the birthday girl. Betty went to the party and happily gave
her nickel to the little girl. The friend later told her that if she couldn’t
give her more than a nickel, she would not be invited.
Mom remembered many winters where
they lived on deer meat and all of the bottled fruits and vegetables from their
garden. She remembered not having any money in the house during many winters.
All they had was the food they stored.
One school picnic they went on an
outing and her dad cut her a piece of inner tube to put in the bottom of her
shoe to assist with the trip.
Their home did not have a well on
site, so they would haul the water from the city canal or at Uncle Ferry’s farm.
They hauled three milk cans to retrieve the water. Once Mom was running quickly
from Aunt Emerald’s house to go back home and didn’t see some wire that was
stretched across between 2 trees. It struck her in the throat and cut her
throat badly.
Betty was good help on the family farm
and was quick to get work done and to do it well. She drove the horses for the
derrick cart when the men were cutting hay and storing it to use during the
winter months.
Betty was a good student and loved
school. She loved to attend the Ward activities and had a great testimony of
the Savior as a young girl. She loved seminary. She enjoyed her studies. She
was very quick and could run faster than almost all of the boys. They loved to
skate around the sidewalks of the school. Lunch time was a fun time to be with
friends at school. Although she couldn’t afford to buy anything at lunch time
and always brought something from home to eat for lunch, she was very sociable
and was everyone’s friend. She was a
cheerleader for Oakley
High School all 4 years
of high school. She was active in school plays and had a great talent for
dramatic reading. She was very active in Seminary and loved her Seminary
teachers.
As she grew older in high school
she cooked for the hay crew at the Grandy ranch. One of the men made her a
beautiful tooled leather belt-she had a 16 inch waist!
Mom and Dad went to retrieve a
Christmas tree one year. They were so blinded by love that they didn’t notice
on the fifteen mile return trip on horseback that the tree was dragging and
eventually had no needles by the time they returned home.
During
their courtship they wrote many letters back and forth to each other. They were
great friends and always had much to say to each other. After they were married
they still spent a great deal of time visiting and talking together. Each
morning throughout almost 60 years of marriage they woke up early and laid in
bed and held hands and talked about things they were reading; about their
family and friends; things going on in the world; and new plans and ideas of
things they hoped to accomplish.
Birch Creek was a big picnic place
for the Shelby
family and was soon joined with the Nelson Clan for a wonderful Easter
tradition of a meal of hot dogs, pork and beans, and potato salad followed by a
softball game and mountain hike. The menu evolved to include fried chicken,
cake, jello salad and a first class outfit with refined items and a lot of
family fun. Most of all the relatives
from the two sides were very close and started some wonderful traditions making
for very close extended family.
June 7, 1948 the marriage took
place in the Salt
Lake Temple
and Mom and Dad enjoyed their honeymoon in touring a few of the LDS temples
Manti, and St. George. At that time a temple recommend was required for each
temple and they had to have a recommend for each one they attended.
They travelled to Albuquerque ,
NM where Dad was going to play football as a
punter and place kicker for University
of New Mexico . After they arrived it seemed so far away from
friends and family they decided to BYU to attend college and lived in a one
room apartment – Sealeys
Mobile Home
Park .
Dad and Mom attended BYU for a short time. The
winter of 1948 -1949 was one of the worst on record. Mom and Dad appreciated the canned goods their
family helped them with and learned to enjoy peanut butter and honey
sandwiches. Registering late for fall semester most classes were filled up and
evening schedules were only available. Mom worked at a bank as Dad took some
classes.
After
that year at BYU, they decided to go back and do what Dad knew and loved- work
in the grocery business.
Cardinal Food market was his first
job in Burley and they lived in Mrs. Fitz basement apartment – 2 rooms which
were accessed by the coal furnace room. Then went to work for Spaurs Food store
and lived on Oakley Avenue
in a little three room home. They acquired their first furniture in this
basement apartment.
Gayle Dian Shelby was welcomed into their
family on August 26, 1949.
Dad joined Grandpa Joe Shelby
working at the store in Twin Falls
during this time. Mom travelled back to have wonderful Doctor Sutton in Burley deliver
Darla Kay Shelby on June 25, 1950. Mark Leon Shelby was born in Twin Falls on December
27, 1956.
Dad worked in the Twin Falls store from 1950 thru 1960. It was
common to work 13 days on and take one day off during every 2 weeks. He maintained this schedule for 6 years.
The first house in Twin
Falls was a little three room house on Sunrise . When Shelby ’s
Market expanded, this house later became part of the Twin Falls store expansion. The family moved to 11th Avenue East , and then
moved to a home on the corner of Falls and Mountain View . Their final home before moving
to Burley to open the 2nd store was a nice home on Larkspur just off
of Addison Avenue .
Mark was diagnosed with a serious
illness as a little boy… (Mark fill in details of sickness and time until it
was cured)
Dale and Betty opened the Burley
store in 1960. Sue Ann Shelby was born on December 18, 1962 and Joseph Dale
Shelby was born on June 19, 1964. Dale
and Betty moved into the Dawson
house on Oakley.
They
then had a home built on 20 acres on West 40th near the Oakley Highway and
Farmer’s Market in Burley. They sold Shelby ’s
Markets to Smiths Food King in 1970.
Mom served in many leadership
positions in the church, including Stake Young Women President. She loved to
play golf with Helen McMurray. She loved doing genealogy and compiled much Shelby family genealogy and had much family work done in the
Temple during
these years.
Mom loved to can and bottle and
went to the canning kitchen each year. She enjoyed having her sisters, brother,
and their family and kids nearby. The extended family enjoyed doing many things
together including: picnics; baseball
games; church activities; parades; 4-H; Cassia County Possee Events; Horse Racing;
family holiday meals at the grange or at the Church in Oakley; snow skiing;
water skiing; sleigh riding and picking pine nuts.
They did many fun things together. Sunday
nights were spent watching TV shows like Wild Kingdom ,
Wonderful World of Disney, Mission Impossible and having treats. All of the
family helped build the new Church building near South West Elementary School in Burley. Holidays
were so busy in the grocery store: so many people needed extra food,
decorations, gift items and to stock the shelves, sell the goods, and help
people who had forgotten this item or that item and would call and ask if the
store could be opened for them… left little time for sleep. Dad was often
exhausted after Thanksgiving and Christmas and Easter and the 4th of
July. He loved to be with the family and do everything, but he needed more
hours in the day.
As Mom’s family moved from Oakley
to Burley to work they all helped each other in everything they were doing.
Aunt Myrna, Uncle George and their
kids were fun and shared in so many family events.
Aunt Bea and Uncle Theron, Renee, Connie, had picnics and their home in
Burley was often a get together for dinner and homemade pie, cake, and ice
cream.
Dian, Darla, and the cousins had a
lot of fun with the Critchfield family when they lived in Oakley. Aunt Wanda
opened a beauty shop in Burley. It was fun when their family moved to Burley to
go to their home and visit their family. Ilene, Jan, Carma, Scott and Jeff- all
of the Critchfield cousins were so fun.
Aunt Wilma and Uncle Oel had horses
and it was fun to spend time with them and Dwight, Brenda, Warren, Barton,
Randy, Corey, Holly, Sonia, and Kyle.
Aunt Carol and Uncle LaDell were always part
of everything that happened. Aunt Carol made the best divinity and chili and
brownies and she always had fun games to play and things to do. Jerrolynn,
Denise, and Debbie were our closest cousins and we did everything with them. We
loved them and appreciated our close association so much. 4-H, work at the
grocery store, school events, church events, skiing, water skiing, and riding
horses-we did everything together.
Uncle Bob was in the Air Force and
it was wonderful when he visited and shared stories of Europe and Asia .
During the time of managing the Burley
store Dad bought a large section of land in Albion
and then sold it to Skaggs Drug store. He then bought the ranch in Junction and
ran 350 head of cattle and bought farm in Malta to raise hay and to have
rangeland for the cattle in winter. They would drive, trail, and move the cows back
to Junction for the summer.
Dian graduated from High School in
Burley in 1967. She graduated from Utah
State University
in 1971.
Dad and Uncle Ladell Handy made a
great project out of the Junction Ranch. They sprayed the land to clear the
Sage Brush and planted crested wheat which grew well. They developed 4 springs
in the area to serve the needs of the cattle for water. They rotated 4 lots of
ground to maximize its use for their cattle.
Dale Shelby and LaDell Handy were
recognized for their excellence in developing and using this ranchland. They
were honored as Cassia County Grassmen of the Year in 1970.
In 1968 the Burley Shelby
Supermarket had expanded into the premier store of the Cassia County
area. At this time a large fire broke out around the back of the building and
consumed the store in a relatively quick amount of time.
By the time Dad got to the store
after a long night of stocking he could see the fire rolling up the aisles and
was peeling the labels off the cans and blew the windows out of the front of
the store. It was a total loss and the only items saved were the horseshoes off
the Budweiser Horses and the Corel Ware .
It took 90 days to rebuild the
store and to re-open. Luckily the store was covered by insurance and Associated
Food Stores assisted in acquiring materials from a Medford , Oregon
Safeway store that was not being completed.
Hussman had the equipment available
(though this was during the 1960’s Watts riot.
Hussman was in the middle of this major event). Dad has always been
appreciative that they were fortunate to have planned for insurance to cover
the time to rebuild the store, and to pay the employees’ wages. Because of this
insurance planning, they could keep the staff all together as the store was
rebuilt.
Dad and Mom learned the value of
family as they stood in the front of the Cassia County Bank – now the First
Federal Bank- and watched the store burn down in front of this bank building
surrounded by all their kids – that family is most important and everything
else is replaceable.
Two years after the store burned
down – they decided to sell and move to full time ranching in King Hill Idaho
and purchased the Pitchfork Ranch from the Knox Estate. Uncle Ladell and Aunt
Carol Handy and Jerrolyn moved from Burley and joined in the move to King Hill
to live and manage the ranch. Rex Hall and his wife Lilly also moved to help at
the ranch. Many neighbor ranchers, farmers, members of the Church, and people
in Glenns Ferry became dear friends.
The Pitchfork Ranch developed into
about 68,000 acres and 1,500 cattle from adding the King Hill Ranch and Aiden Hall
Range in 1973. Dad served as Bishop in the Glenns Ferry Ward
with Brother McBride and Brother Wills as his counselors. The Relief Society
President was Sister Haskell and the Primary President was Sister Simpson.
Darla married Allen Hunt in Burley.
Dad’s first grandchild, Juston Dale (Hunt) Hall born in Burley October 31,
1972. They later divorced.
Mom was involved in Glenns Ferry in
church and many leadership positions and fund raising for building drives and
offering donations. She was very committed to the Gospel and living the
commandments not just understanding them. She was committed to preparing for
the Sabbath and keeping it Holy and there was no deviating. She had a lot of
fun with and providing lunches and food breaks on the cattle drives and made
lots of parts and food runs from the ranch.
In 1974 President Nixon placed an
embargo on beef that made it difficult in the long run to make ranching very
profitable and the decision was made to sell the Pitchfork ranch and move to
Provo, where Mark was going away to attend BYU. Mark graduated from Glenns Ferry
High School in May of
1975. Dad gave the commencement speech to their graduating class.
The family moved to Provo and made many great
friends. Dad drove back and forth between Provo
and Twin Falls that year as he assisted Grandpa
in beginning the development of the Mobile
Home Park
on Filer Avenue .
Following one year at Brigham
Young University ,
Mark served a mission to Rio De
Janeiro , Brazil
from 1976-1978.
In the summer of 1976 after Mark
left on his mission and Dale, Betty, Joe, and Suzi moved from Provo ,
Utah to Twin Falls
and lived on Juniper Avenue
in the Twin Falls
5th ward. Dad served in the Stake Young Men Presidency and then on
the High Council for 10 years. He was over all of the LDS Church
buildings in the Twin Falls Stake. He was instrumental in remodeling the Twin Falls Stake
Center on Maurice Street and when the new Seminary
building was constructed near the Stake
Center .
He helped with many Scouting and
Young Men activities. Youth Conference in Provo Utah, river trips with the
Scouts down the Middle Fork, Stake dances with elaborate decorations, Stake
Speech and Dance Festivals, Young Men Basketball tournaments, Scout Camp,
Church Welfare Farm assignments, High Council speaking assignments, Ward
Training, Dad helped with so many things.
Dad and Mom always made their
children a priority. They never missed any sporting event or school event. They
supported Dian and Darla as they participated in 4-H and cheerleading. Mark,
Suzi, and Joe played basketball, football, cross country, and track and they
attended all of their games. Often when Joe and Suzi were in Junior High and
High School they would see one basketball game at one school and travel to
another school-at times in a different city in Southern
Idaho to see the other game.
Dad was asked to speak many times on
different Mother’s Day. He was a great proponent of honoring women and often
spoke of his appreciation for Mom and Grandma Alyce and the wonderful women in
his life.
Dad has been a lifelong reader. He
regretted not graduating from college and he encouraged all of his children and
grandchildren to go to college and earn a degree.
He has
become self-educated on many subjects. He has read extensively on United States
history and Indian and Western History. He has a great knowledge of all historical
developments in the United
States . He has avidly researched and read
about the history of Idaho , Utah ,
Wyoming , Montana ,
Oregon , Arizona
and New Mexico .
He is familiar with all of the Native American tribes and their traditions and
values. Some of Dad’s favorite historical heroes are Chief Joseph; Jacob
Hamblin; many church leaders and the often unsung heroes of Idaho
and Utah and
the West who helped in its development.
He has loved and appreciated the
Western way of life. Reading about many Church and Historical leaders, he was
not satisfied with knowing their life stories, but always stops to see the
location where a famous battle occurred; the homestead or ranch of the past; or
where a famous historical person is buried. He has respected the wonderful life
lessons from the past and the great men and women throughout American and
Church history who were true to what is right, and who gave their lives doing
what is right.
He and Mom have driven many miles
seeing family and friends or on business trips. They have had a lot of fun
stopping along the way to research some of Dad’s historical readings and see
the trails, roads, ranches, rivers, mountain passes, places and people that he
reads about during his many hours of reading, enjoying learning about the
events leading up to today.
Dad, Grandpa, and Uncle Monte
Shelby worked on developing Shelby ’s
Mobile Home Estates. In 1978 they bought
ground on Pole Line Road
in Twin Falls
and expanded and developed the land into a wonderful Mobile Home Park.
In 1979 the family moved from Juniper Avenue to Hillcrest Drive
which was just down the street from Grandpa and Grandma Alyce Shelby. They had many wonderful experiences with
Grandpa Joe and Grandma Alyce and all of the family during this time. Every
week we had dinner together, often on the back patio at Grandma and Grandpa’s
house during the summertime. Dad would often walk down and have breakfast with
Grandma and Grandpa. Our little poodle became so familiar with the sidewalk
between the 2 houses that Fu would show up at Grandma’s house to say hello.
On Thanksgiving, Christmas, and
birthdays we were always together. As the family grew larger card tables were
set up in the family room and living room to seat everyone. After dinner, we
would play card games until evening. At Christmas time Dad and Mom always
arranged for a Santa to come and visit to hand out a gift to each grandchild.
Darla and Bob Hall married in
January of 1976. They lived on Buchanan
Street in Twin
Falls where Kelcy was born in February 1976. They
moved to Kimberly and Jessica was born in November 1978, Whitney in September
1980, Jordan in July 1982 and Logan in April 1986.
In 1980 the decision was made to
tear down the original Shelby ’s Market and build
a new store for Smiths Food and Drug on the corner of Addison and Sunrise . At that time
they moved the Gas station from the corner of Sunrise
and Addison to the corner of Morningside and Addison .
They added a carwash and gas station expansion and leased this to Royce
Derricott to manage.
In December 1979 Mark married Jan
Rumsey in the Idaho Falls
Temple . Kreg Shelby was
born in September 1980. Mark graduated from Brigham
Young University
and moved to Twin Falls
to work as a CPA for Stan Snow. Matt Shelby was born in May 1983. Ryan Shelby was
born in July 1986.
Dian and Dad bought Idaho Outdoor
advertising. After several years it included all of southeastern Idaho . Dian moved to Pocatello and opened a
second office there. Shelby ’s
Outdoor Advertising was a very successful business venture. It was sold in 1985.
Suzi went to Bolivia as an
exchange student in January-February 1981. She went to school at Brigham Young
University after graduating from Twin Falls High School in May.
Joe graduated from Twin Falls High School in 1982. He attended Snow College
in Ephraim Utah
and played basketball. Mom and Dad enjoyed travelling to all of his basketball
games. In June of 1983 Joe went on a mission to Raleigh , North Carolina .
In 1984 Dad and Mom moved to Idaho Falls and then a year later moved back to Twin Falls and held the
wedding reception for Joe.
In 1985 Dad and Mom moved to Idaho Falls and joined in
Computerland.
In September of 1984 Suzi went on a
mission to Cochabamba , Bolivia . In February of 1986, Suzi
returned from Bolivia and
went back to Brigham
Young University .
She married Jim Stanger from Murtaugh in February 1987. Mom and Dad sold the
home on Hillcrest and moved to Idaho
Falls permanently in 1986.
Darla Hall was diagnosed with
breast cancer during her pregnancy with Logan
in 1986. She and her family moved from Kimberly to Meridian Idaho
in the fall of 1986. Bob opened a new dental lab in Meridian . She started chemotherapy in January
of 1987. After remission and then reoccurrence of cancer and another complete
round of chemotherapy Darla died January 9, 1993. Juston Hall served a mission in Salta Argentina
1991 and finished his mission in California
in October 1993.
In 1991 Dad and Mom built a home on Springwood and completed
the yard and sold it in April 1993 and moved to Farmington ,
Utah in the Somerset area on Kingston Drive .
In August of 2003 bought St George home and enjoyed partial retirement.
Betty Shelby, Dale Shelby |
In August of 2003 bought St George home and enjoyed partial retirement.
On January 30, 2004 – Betty Shelby passed away in the SLC LDS
Hospital during surgery
to correct an aneurysm in her brain.
Nov 2004 married Margie Stanger Shelby and moved to Twin Falls , Idaho
Enjoys travelling and
visiting Family and rotates between Sunday, October 23, 2011
Family Pictures
Carol Nelson (Handy), Wilma Nelson (Parish), Merna Nelson (Franks) Baby is Brenda Parish (dau of Wilma) born July 1, 1947 |
1933 Picture at the one room "Dam School" grades 1 through 8 Lois Hunter, Klyda Hunter, LaRae Nelson, Marjorie, Wanda Nelson Wilma Nelson, Maxa, Ethelyn, Norma |
Dale Shelby, Betty Nelson Shelby, Ila Very Nelson Mark Shelby |
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